Every Home has a master, a captain, a head and that is the Man. If the
home is unstable/sad or stable/happy, the head made it so. They are like the
foundation and the women the building blocks. As a wife your work is to support
your husband in making the home beautiful and to bring the vision your husband
wants for his home out, try talking about the future with your spouse that way
you can support him making the future bright. Here's what this man says about
his home;
"Marrying this woman helped me to be able to become who i am today,
in the sense that we were living beneath our means for over a decade. There are
many women who will never ever ever ever agree to live beneath their means. I
will deny them of holidays, i will deny them of new cars, of cloths, i will
deny them of everything because i was trying to build for tomorrow and she has
so much faith and belief in me and where i was taking us. Because I’m the
captain of my ship, i can’t lie, i am the captain of my family, I’m the head of
my family and i believe whether we sink or swim is my responsibility. If you
are unfortunate not to have a wife who wants to encourage you, you can have a
hundred million and say I’m not spending a kobo of this. We are going to
continue to live like paupers because i want to do this and she’ll be like
fine, and without that peace of mind, of knowing that i was putting things in
place for our future, i couldn’t have ever achieved it."
Wedding is a day, Marriage is a lifetime. Be wise, choose carefully. A
wrong choice can destroy you in many ways you can’t think of.
