Hello
everyone, welcome to my blog.
Share your marital stories. The Joy,
How we handle issues, Prayer points, Older couples marriage success stories,
parenting kitchen,everything. This is my first post and i hope you tag along
all through.
Been
single is completely different from been married. Marriage is sweet, it brings
more maturity in one and you need God in all you do. It gives you a strong
charisma.
You
may have been friendly, playful, easy going to everyone, calm, ambitious, have
an aura to be easily liked, quiet, an aura of bringing good things to people
you are friends with. well all that has got to change, family comes first.
I
guess before you got married you were in your own world doing things your way.
Now
you should drop a lot as you are married. You can still do things your way but
your spouse needs to involved and have a positive consent to it.
If
you were timid before, now you have to be Bold and confident, soon you will be
supporting your husband in decision making and grooming your kids.
If
you were Mr. or miss popular before, you need to limit your friendliness from
others to your spouse, your children, extended Family(mother, father, mother
in-law/father-in-laws, brothers, sisters, bro-in-law/sister in-law, then
close relatives…), except your job requires you to for example a news caster
and even at that your relationship with others especially the opposite sex
should be guided in other not to send wrong signals
Be
open to your spouse, be as transparent and straight as you can because secrets
never hide.
Be
very open to communication because this is key in your marriage and talk
when you are burdened it gives your spouse the heads up to helping you and it
gives you instant relief.
Respect
your husbands, They are the head of the family just as Christ is the head of
the Church. You should be humble, gives your husband all your respect , then
watch the outcome. A old couple once told me respect, patience are key in
marriage and mostly needed for a woman to relate peacefully with her husband
and when you have these, people will see your home and wonder what magic it is
you are using because there will definitely be peace and joy
Remember:
Don’t compare your marriage to others.
There may be challenges but rather than feel sad and miserable, stay strong, let love lead the way, same love that made you marry your spouse, bring the sweet memories back....pray, stick together. Because there's nothing out there that can give you peace and nothing is new, life is in circles, just as the earth is oval and old styles(clothing designs) come back from the time of old so also is that situation of yours, it has happened before and so it should not cause you to make wrong decisions, be guided!
“Give up things of yourself when it means happiness for your
spouse, which ultimately leads to your own happiness.”
