I counselled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation. He told me he
can't do without masturbating. One thing that struck me in his confession was
when he said, 'my mum caused all this for me'.
Curiosity got hold of me & I asked him, how? He said; he started
masturbating since when he was 4 years old. ' my mum dresses up before me, I am
used to seeing her nakedness. I am not moved to have sex with her but I always
long to see mature ladies naked just the way I
always see my mum dressing up naked before me. I still remember seeing her
nakedness regularly till I was 8 years& my dad do shout on her, 'send this
boy out before you dress...' , but my mum would always reply by saying, 'will
my son sleep with me? Stop planting evil thought in his heart'.
Any time I see my mum's naked body, I long to see
ladies' naked body, I went into sex at age 10 and till now I am not free from
sex& heavy pornography & masturbation...'
Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this?
You are dressing up before your 2 years son/daughter & you say he/she
doesn't know anything yet? .
Some couples will be having sex while their close to 2 years old child will be
in their room with them & they will feel, he can only see, he can't
understand.
Sir/ma, that your child does not need to understand. Seeing your nakedness or seeing
you and your spouse making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies
and urge in that child.
Remember, it is a jet world! How will you destroy your own children with your
own carelessness?
Don't let your children see your nakedness.
Don't make love in the presence of your child no matter the age. The scene
sticks to the memory& they may want to explore & experiment what they
are seeing.
Stop making (unknowingly) home-made 'sex clips or video' for your children to
be watching.
Mummy, sit properly. Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; parting
your legs and your son is seeing your inner tight & pant.
Be careful! Daddy, don't wear that ordinary boxer at home that when you sit
down & your 'thing' is dangling & your daughter is seeing it.
There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse.
Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house, you now put
your children into sexual bondage.
Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons is
dangerous.
Yes, they won't lust after you but you might be increasing their curiosity to
see the breasts of ladies outside.
Let's stop being 'pornographic materials' to our children.
Raising sexually pure and impure children begins at home' Be selective as to
kind of home video you allow your children to see .99 percent of what children
see on the television today pollute their minds .Parents please don't put on
revealing dress .It equally pollute the minds of these children and distract
their attentions from things that would edify their minds .
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