African Men: Women Who Cannot Cook

Most African men would ask you while you are still dating, can you cook? Or what is your native food and can you prepare it? This questions are asked just to evaluate if you can take care of his belly.

As a woman single or married. Been a good cook is passed from our mothers to daughters or learnt by self while growing up. If you are a good cook, it will keep your Husband drawn to you always. I recently conducted a feasibility study by questioning married couples, new and old and found out 90% of men love women who can cook well. Even the Men who claim not to fond of food, deep down they crave for good food. Now the question is can you cook or prepare a good meal, balanced to the core?

I also conducted a study on women and found out 60% can cook well, what about the remaining 40%. If you are a lady not yet married please sit close to mum, pay close attention to her kitchen skills so that you can become a good cook for your husband and kids, because this is one important aspect of building your family. But if you are married and can’t cook, the battle is not over, try to ask questions, never be shy, always ask your husband how the meal was and if  he says bad do not take offence learn and correct it the next time you prepare the meal. I learnt something from watching a movie desperate house wives  there a wife said "a woman should be a chef in the kitchen", my advice is if you are in such shoes, ask your married friends, old couple from your church, even the internet, etc There is a common saying in Nigeria “the way to a man's heart is his belly” lol .

I will share some kitchen tips time to time here so don’t worry you are going to be a great wife and mum. It is great to be a good cook